I wanted to learn to capture those :it" moments.
There was just one problem , every family I photographed just stood there and expected me to know what to do. Didn't they know they should be frolicking together. That they should act natural and just let me take a thousand pictures of them being "natural"
But what is being natural ? And how do you feel natural when you're all dressed up in a public place with a photographer who you probably barely know following you around telling you to act natural ?
easy peasy.
Come up with some simple silly interactions that for the family or couple to do together. For example. Ask everyone to try to make the baby laugh .

It takes the families focus off the camera and puts it where it belongs. On each other. Another trick I use for large families Is I ask them to pose themselves how they are comfortable when they get ready for a shot. I find that natural family connections shine through this way. Then I move them as needed to make sure everyone's happy smiling face can be seen.

And then I tell the kids to tickle Mom and Dad. ( the kiddos love this one)

And sometimes i ask them to walk away from me and then i tell "BOO" really loud so they all turn around.

Poses like these help loosen a family up not only with each other but with you the photographer as well. After a few fun ones the magic really shines through. Then you can get pictures like this that truly capture the love and joy between a family. They look natural, but were achieved with direction.

And one last piece of advice. Never stop taking pictures .
Even when no one is looking...

because you don't want to miss the small moments that speak BIG words about love.
